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Modern understanding

We’ve come so far, or so they claim—
No curses now, just a different game.

“We understand,” they proudly say,
Then shift uncomfortably away.

One viral post, one online thread,
And suddenly they’re experts instead.

No demons, myths, or ancient fears,
Just polished doubts in modern years.

Progress? Perhaps. That’s partly true.
Society changed—its ignorance did too.

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When tiredness becomes part of your personality

People often underestimate what chronic exhaustion does to a person.

Not regular tiredness.

Not the kind solved by sleeping eight hours on a Sunday.

The deeper kind.

The one that follows people for years.

Medication can help control seizures, but many anti-epileptic drugs come with a hidden price. Fatigue becomes permanent background noise. Some days it feels manageable. Other days it feels like walking underwater.

He realized after a while that people started associating him with being “the tired guy”.

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A friend in need

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Is it fear or lack of respect that you see the most?

I was speaking with one of those Facebook friends that you never met the other way. She also has a very specific disorder, although not epilepsy, but close to the spectrum.

When asking what she hates the most about her condition, she said “the way the others perceive her”. Thinking about epilepsy, how do friends and acquintances see you and what do you hate about it? I saw in the eyes of people that know about my epilepsy many things, but two stick out:

  1. Fear – people fear that you’ll have a seizure anytime, anywhere. But the fear is not that you’ll get hurt, but that they won’t be able to handle what is happening.
  2. Lack of respect – there are many myths about epilepsy (see my past articles) and many people believe them. Many people think that we are all photosensitive, or that we inherited it, or that we have a smaller IQ because of it. The last one is the one I saw many times, regardless of saying to people that Caesar, Dostoyevski, Agatha Christie, Alfred Nobel, Van Gogh and Theodore Rosevelt (among many others) had it.
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Navigating love with epilepsy: challenges faced when dating

Dating can be an exhilarating journey filled with anticipation, butterflies, and the hope of finding a lasting connection. However, for individuals living with epilepsy, the experience of dating can come with unique challenges and uncertainties. In this blog post, we will explore the problems that people with epilepsy often encounter while dating and offer some insights on how to address them.

  1. The Fear of Disclosure: One of the most significant challenges faced by individuals with epilepsy when dating is deciding when and how to disclose their condition. Fear of stigma, misconceptions, and rejection often complicate this process. Some individuals may worry that their potential partners will view their epilepsy as a burden or a barrier to a healthy relationship. Striking the right balance between openness and personal privacy can be a delicate task.

Suggestion: It’s important to remember that epilepsy is a medical condition and not a reflection of one’s character or worth. When considering disclosing your epilepsy, choose a comfortable and appropriate time to have an open conversation. Education and dispelling common misconceptions about epilepsy can help alleviate fears and foster understanding.

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